When David learns of Absalom's death, he griefs to the point of neglecting his kingly duties. The land is in turmoil and David is disrespecting the families that gave their lives in this battle by mourning the enemy. Once again, David is unable to see is own life clearly.
So, what do I take out of this sad reading? Don't become too consumed with yourself. Absalom allowed himself to become consumed with anger, resentment, greed and pride. He focused on the hurt he had endured in life and blamed his father for his disappointments. David became consumed with his grieve, focusing solely on his loss. Absalom was never able to break free of himself, and it lead to his destruction. David was wise enough to listen to good counsel and slowly found healing.
We are all going to have hurt and disappointment in life. Some will face bigger trials than others. However, allowing ourselves to become consumed by these events will only lead to depression. If you are struggling with these feelings, seek wise counsel. Learn to forgive and let go of the hurt. Turn to God and spend time talking it out with Him.
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